From the moment a baby is born, their gender immediately describes their position in family. How they should be treated and what all opportunities they receive and how they should behave in the eyes of society. Home is the first place where in equality starts between boys and girls.
Just think of following questions.
- Why mothers always insist only daughters to make a cup of coffee, Ever wondered why?
- Always boys play video games and chitchats with friends, but sisters are expected to help in household work, Ever wondered why?
- Parents always insists the girls to wear proper clothes when they go out of house, why dont they say their son to look at women with respect, Ever wondered why?
- Why our society so particular about girls with right values and thoughts and completely trying to ignore the same values to the boys, Ever wondered why?
If any of you knows answers to the above questions comment me in comments section.
Helpingwives.com provides some basic things to teach your son.
1. Treat girls with dignity and respect:
Try to inculcate the regular hobby to your son to treat girls with dignity and respect. If you make your son balance between girls and respect your sweet son will grow in to quite gentlemen. This should be in mind even after a marriage with his wife. Especially during your sons younger years parents should take proper care.It is said that up to 5 years you must see your children like a prince, then 6-15 years you must keep telling all works and pose some burdens, later from 15- 25 years you must be friendly with your son and must share everything to you.
2. If some one tries to change you, leave them:
Walking away from doing something wrong is not being coward – It is being a man. also tell your son whether it be a girlfriend or a friend or even a room mate or whom ever it may be, if they try to change your mindset leave their company. A mother should mould and build a sons character even from childhood itself.
3. Share the caring work:
It is mothers duty to share all the work of households equally between girls and boys. From cooking, cleaning, bringing water and take care of children, laundry etc must be assigned carefully. Women carry out at least two and half times unpaid work, because of this thousands of women and girls were unable to get equal opportunities of going school and jobs.
In my view how much a girl needs about managing a home, boys also must be indulged in things and capable of handling the household works on their own. Mothers it is your responsibility to guide them properly.
4. Equality at home:
As a mature mind get rid of the fatherly and motherly duties, instead call all this as parental duties. Our sons should know how to respect the other gender and their opinions also. The only way we can make future environment safe for daughters is by raising sons with the right values.
Raising a son is a wonderful thing. When your boys are little it is so easy to get the things understand if you teach them all right values and morals. How should be with opposite gender soon one day they will become outstanding member sin society and also family. With this they will be wonderful brothers, sons, fathers and husbands in community. It is moms job to get them in good path.